Outside the city of people want to rush in, people want to escape the city, Mr. Qian zhongshu talks of "and", mostly be used to interpretation marriage. Marriage is infinite complex suspense, but, marriage is just a part of life. It is not difficult to imagine, life a lot harder to escape when "and" trouble. Recently, the young "fled back to north wide" phenomenon, it shows the life "and" the helpless. Previously, many in a line of young man city work, faced with high house prices pressure, facing the ubiquity of registered permanent residence discrimination, choose NBA hats to flee north wide, returned home to two of the three line to fight city. That is, they are usually after come back to my hometown and can't adapt to the great divide between the cities, on the business will have to go to the "spell dad failure" setbacks, finally had to return to north widely. Flee with the returns in between, young people that were tossing a heart, never have happy peace. Exactly where's life was laid the place? In home town "spell dad", very difficult, returned north wide do "ant family", and very bitter. Come and go, and far to home for many young people is a stranger, no heart of Ann place. I think, now many young life, is facing no escape dilemma. In fair market perspective, it is easy to explain the plight of the forming reasons. China's market economic development so many years, really makes the north big cities such as wide provided relatively young male flat development space. In big cities such as long as you have walked in, effort earnest, true not mix less than rice to eat, and have a good chance of passage into flow up. Such life development environment, in many two three line city, often is scarce. Think about the many places often appear "turnip" recruiting and "spell dad" game, many young people will hurt "contributing to hometown of heart. However, for young people flee with the return, also can't just around the market to be JingJiZhang perspective. Want me to say, some JingJiZhang sunglasses shop count to the final, it can only be HuTuZhang. All the life pursuit, I mean, it is in order to happiness. Maybe someone will say, the rich have happiness, no money which to happiness. In the money become a common belief that today, this sounds absolutely makes sense. But, who can deny, happiness, and the nature of the mind are a kind of emotional cultural experience? Let a lot has been used to city culture environment of the people back to the home of the behind closed, even in the four corners in the sky all day is extravagant life, I'm afraid they inner happiness index is unlikely to high where to go. Today, never despise culture to the penetration of heart. Culture on people mind occupied strength, now often underestimate. Might as well just to "the marriage and" as an example, the rising divorce rate today, will not only benefit is the reason. The deviation between people culture appeal, cultural value melting away, the real is let even if the nearest person, the heart also easy onto each other can't gather place. Facing the cultural value of the rupture between people, individual too weak. So between person and person, the specific populations of agglomeration region between, will also be a great cultural environment differences. A lot of people fled north wide back to hometown, think hard work, some local officials well let comment.maybe is hard to accept.